Couple of things struck me right off the bat ...

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I want to be able look down the path of my life and not see shadows and uncertainty.


yeah, that would be nice ...

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you just haven't had the ammunition to overcome your heart. Now, apparently you do (with plenty of outside influence).


What does he mean by this?

I did notice as you did that he focused a lot on the children and not on you. I don't think this necessarily means he doesn't have feelings for you, just that "the children" is the lifeline he is hanging onto right now.

I'm afraid Heather that if you want to make this work, you are going to have to focus on soothing his fears for awhile. I think he laid them out pretty clearly.

(1) he is worried about parenting
(2) he feels that you and others are ganging up on him
(3) he feels that you are not committed

All of the heart comments lead me to believe that he does think that you love him. And that is good.

JMHO of course

Chrome


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack