Did any of you see your R with H go even more down hill after finding out about the A? I was looking at some e-mails from a month ago where H was stating that he would be willing to give her up... even a few weeks ago - much more loving toward me. I'm just wondering if it's because I've been so clingy, tried to get him to end the A, tried to get him to leave me; or, if it's because the realization has really hit him that he needs to give up someone? Maybe a combination of the two.. Just trying to gain some insight.. I hate this!!!
