I know.. it is a horrible soap opera and I've always hated them anyway! Unfortunately, our H's don't see anything wrong in their OW. I've brought up lies that she has told him about her M or things that she has done like "pretending" to be ill. H always blasts me and says I don't know what I'm talking about. The OW are perfect in their eyes.. for now anyway. The lies will build up... they have to...
I'm afraid that my H will take my young daughter out with him and OW, too. They did it before I knew about the A. I asked him never to do it again unless we were D... He agreed... but I don't trust him. OW has bought her gifts for holidays... It ticks me off big time! All we want to do is protect our kids. I would see a professional about how to handle your situation.. really I would...It's different for me because of how young my child is...