I just vowed last night that I am giving up all expectations of him - good or bad. I told him it's his choice to end our marriage, not mine and that I am in 100% if he so chooses. Do they ever understand what they will lose?? (church, family, home, life, me)
It's so interesting because after being slammed last night about how he was NOT giving her up, he was so much more huggy and kissy this morning - probably because I didn't fight back and didn't try to "talk some sense into him" last night. I just hugged and kissed back and went off to work.. No clinging..
The funny thing about making myself more attractive is that a few weeks ago my H said something about how he doesn't always go for the most attractive woman in the room... i.e - OW is NOT all that attractive - kind of round and frumpy. hahaha! I have already thrown out the ugly grandma undies and bought some new stuff. It has gotten his attention! Have lost about 20 pounds so that helps! He's always called me his hot wife in the past. There are still days when this man can't keep his hands off of me- just not enough of them!
