He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

I thought LRT is when you are physically separated - that will happen this Sat/Sun - he has signed a 6 mos lease. I have told him I do not want to discuss anything about Ow or their so called R. We can talk kids, money (he wants me to still control the checking account and use the same credit card - so I can see what is being spent) and if he wants to talk about us he can bring it up - I said I will not bring us up. I said I am leaving a door open for him and he said he has not closed it yet...He wants me to trust him with our $$$$ but I fear getting screwed one more time.

Ow soon to be Ex H called and said he found her prescription for Valtrex - herpes or cold sores (per Ow) but this has put some serious doubts into my H head (finally). He just cannot see that her having a new boyfriend (with sleepovers per her H) the month we were reconciling is another flaw in her character. Maybe he is starting to think that - I can only hope.

I am willing to let their A pan out - it can only fail - I just need patience. We agreed to no filing for D unless we do it together. And he has agreed to NOT have her around when he has the kids - I am scared he cannot go thru with this- but then his almost 13 yr old daughter will not want to be with him anyways. I still am confused on how much truth we tell her - this is her social circle (daughters of our friends) too - the word will get out and the Ow son (12) is in the same class. I'd rather she got the truth from us first and not be blindsided at the school rumor mill.... Any feedback would be appreciated! Thanks for all your help in the "Days of My life" - I should write a soap opera!!!