I left the boards for a few years and have only recently returned to share some things I have learned.
Posting on the site helps me heal and understand what lessons I am suppose to be learning from going through this experience we call life.
Some MLC spouses remain "stuck" and who knows if the light bulb will get turned on inside or not. Maybe in their next lifetime.
Your XH's wife sounds very insecure. I'm sure you XH is feeling bad inside of what he lost. He may not admit it, but I do know he is thinking about it.
What has brought you peace? If you would share your experience it would be so helpful to those who are struggling.
Hearing from thiose who have been through their spouses MLC and have moved forward with their life, are now happy and at peace, is very important to those who feel it is all hopeless.
Please share how you have overcome the craziness of MLC.