Sorry you find your way here. But this is a great place to be due to our sitches. There are lots of information on this board so start reading and learn all you can about MLC. This journey is all about him so the best thing you can do is take care of yourself and your children no matter what happens. I had to learn the hard way. For a long time I blamed myself every day for what has happen dispite everyone telling me this is about him.
Reading your post was like reading my own sitch, except that my H could not be honest with me about his affair.(I had to snoop to find out but still have not confronted him). And till this very day which has been 7 months still have not been able to speak to me other than responding to my questions.
Listen to FriendlyOne and Was2sad. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally and mentally. This will be a rough ride if you choose stand for it.
