Sorry you need to be here, but under the cicumstances there is no place better.
Keeping in mind that to my knowledge my H has not had any A's.I asked the same question about whether my H was MLC or not. Ultimately for me, the bottom line was if he was in MLC I could have compassion for what he was going through. Then the question was posed to me that the man I love is in alot of pain, so how would it hurt to show compassion for that MLC or not? I thought is was a good question. J and W2S are very wise, listen to them.