Thanks for the support everyone ! My H does live with me and just tonight said that he almost left last week after my needy few days of begging and pleading. This is quite ironic since I've been asking him for a while why he doesn't just leave if he's so in love with OW and he says that he has no place to go and that he's not ready to do that. Just goes to show you that they can't even keep track of their own lies! (another 180 is to STOP talking about the ow)
I obviously need to give him space as well.. It's just so counterintuitive - I want to pull him closer right now! But, he's come back just adamant now that he is NOT going to break it off. I know it needs to run it's course but it's so hard to see your husband "dating" someone.UGH!!! In fact, he's pretty sure he needs to spend more time with her now to "test" his feelings. It's just NUTS!
One good thing that he said tonight was that he didn't believe anything that I was doing... He feels I'm trying to manipulate him! He's seeing the changes, isn't he? and, it's driving him crazy!
I also like the idea of making myself attractive - not just for husband. That sounds like it could be a real ego booster. I'm going to do just that!
