YIKES. Sorry you're here. But, as you can see, it's sadly a familiar story. Ugh .
You're doing great. We all hit the bottom and cry and let it out -- again and again. We're human and dealing with such loss, such madness.
Jack has a great expression for this: good things happen, leave them with that day and be cautious.
Could not be more true.
He will rewrite history. Turn things around you never thought possible. He will lie to you about EVERYTHING, even silly things. He will tell lies about you to everyone. He will drain your $ (KEEP YOUR $ SEPARATE...I thought my H was not bad at first, then when I moved out, he blew through a LOT of cash). He will ignore the kids, be a sorry excuse of a father. He will "fall in love" only for it to be a pathetic bandaid. He will make a fool of himself to everyone. He will likely falter at work and in other aspects of his life. He will treat you more poorly than you ever imagined being treated by anyone, let alone your H.
Sounds grim? No. Just reality. And, I want to tell it to you now, so it dampens the pain a little. I hope a lot of this does not happen.
But, detach, GAL, move on. He will likely get sick of that OW. They all do.
And don't forget, you are WONDERFUL. BEAUTIFUL. WORTHY.
