It is way too soon for either of you to really KNOW what your H's are going to do....
Also, if you really really look back you will see the "problems"....I know for the longest time I was in denial because none of it was worth leaving the family over....BUT...you combine this with the fact that they are having an internal crisis and all those "problems" get amplified to disproportionate size....and thus you enter MLC'ville....
And finally.....get used to UNRELIABILITY....they will miss dates, important events, things that even THEY arrange....all part of the "illness"....
Sorry to make it sound so gloomy....but the good news is that my H did all of this and more.....yet we are back together!!!
