There are many successful reconections that exist between MLC spouses and the LBS that we do not know exist. Just as their are many MLC cases that we are not aware of.
My understanding about what is taking place is far greater than what we are aware of from the physical realm. There is the non-physical reality that is in process at the same time the physical reality is in process. Both are working on the MLC person consecutively and simultaneously.
From what we can see, hear, feel, smell and taste is what we believe is all that there is. Some of us can sense that there is something more complex that exists and has a great affect on what we are experiencing, but can't explain it.
All of us are on the same journey home. Each of us were born into the world and will eventually return to our Creator. Their is no right or wrong path home, as any path will take us there.
What ever path we choose, it will be filled with experiences in which we have the opportunity to learn the lessons we were sent here to learn.
Some of us wake up and realize this reality while others will sleep walk on their path home. I'm a believer that life is eternal and that death does not exist, except in the physical form as we know it.
I believe that our soul existed prior to our incarnation and will continue to exist after our physical body comes to rest. I also believe that the lessons we don't learn this time through, we will have an opportunity to learn the next time we return to Earth. Where we live in the physical form is the "Earth school," the place where we are given an opportunity to experience that which we know internally.
I'm a believer that God is everywhere and in all things. We can never escape God as He is always present. Even the MLC person can not escape the presence of God, even if they deny His presence.
I don't recall a MLC spouse talking about God or being spiritually connected. My belief is that a MLC person is actually spiritually "disconnected." I believe that MLC people are "lost souls." They have lost touch with who they really are.
They believe that they are their body, their mind and everything physical. They live in a world where it's all about the physical and the hear and now. As a MLC person would say, "It's all about me." The MLC person lives for today as they believe tomorrow might not come.
A MLC person believes they are greater than anything and everything. Even God. They have gone so long without feeling good enough and denying their own needs that they seperate themselves from anything that is connected to a Higher Power.
A MLC person is very selfish and is trying to control everything and everybody in their physical world. They believe they have the power to bring about changes that will bring them the happiness that alludes them.
This is a false belief. Happiness does not come from "External Power", only more pain and suffering.
Happiness comes from "Authentic Power" the alignment of the personality with the Soul.
A person in MLC is a person whose personality and Soul are in conflict with each other. The personality is acting out to take control in seeking the happiness it desires.
Eventually, at least hopefully, the MLC person will realize that by trying to control everyone and everything around them does not bring happiness but more pain and suffering in whcih they are trying to escape.
Ultimately, the MLC person will come to realize that through the choices they have made, they have created their own reality. The reality they have created is not what they were seeking.
With this higher level of consciousness, the MLC person will come to realize that they need to make different choices if they are going to get what they need and seek.
Being selfish will not bring the love, appreciation and respect that the MLC person desires. it will only push it further away.
In time, the MLC person will realize that in order to recive love from others, you first have to give it. It is one of the universal laws of cause and affect. As you give, therefore you shall recieve.
I hope and pray that your H "get's it" before it's too late to return to the person that can give him what he needs.
