SD, I know how this feels sooooo much. You're doing a great job of not fixing H (I used to do that a lot - now I leave him to sort himself out, if he needs my help he'll ask) and also of GAL'ing.
This feeling will pass in time, have you both sat down together (I know you're in MC) and discussed how you are going to tackle the future together? My H seemed to be open to that kind of discussion cos it took the focus off the past and the mistakes we'd made and onto a positive thing - ie building a happy life together.


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.