It sounds like you've done everything perfectly so far. Really in the end, if they choose the door, we can't stop them.
He hasn't lived with her yet; reality will begin setting in quite soon. Don't count this over with him. Sure, he's acting like a grade A fool, but he has to figure it out for himself, the mistake he's making right now. Anything you say will be "wrong", as you know.
Keep posting and reading. So sorry you had to join us.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
