BB and I were watching the TV program "Talk Sex With Sue" and a caller was asking a question about regular/ordinary oral sex on the female.
I asked BB a related question and she came up with the idea guys do oral sex on the gal because the guy likes the smell of the gals Vulva. I said guys want to give their gal pleasure and want to help her have fun.
BB: No, the guy just does that be cause it satisfies some sick need he has. Why do people want to anything other than penis in vagina sex.
Lou: If I preformed oral sex on you it would be because I wanted to see you have pleasure, not to smell your Vulva or your butt.
Lou: I don't think I am that different from other guys wanting their gal to have good sexual experiences. It's about the gals pleasure, not a guy smelling something.
My frustration or problem is when I say that is my truth, but she doesn't appear to accept it as the truth or that she sees men in general, pursuant to her mental set of made-up ideas.
She doesn't see the need/ reasons behind a guy doing manual stimulation on gals either.
Point #1 I know most of this is lack of interests on her part, some of this is testing, and some of it is also her talking about what she feels is reality per her thoughts/experiences.
Question /opinion#1, I think I just have to say what are my true feelings and let her have her opinions.
Question/opinion #2 Is there any truth to any guys doing it for the smell or some other strange reason?
I suppose some of BB's resistance to what I have to offer is mostly related to her LDness and backing up her thoughts about men being mostly interested in their own pleasure.
