In *my case* it made a difference that I initiated all affection, my H wans't very loving at all whenhe came back. Gradually he warmed up to me and I know had I just waited he'd felt I was still angry and unforgiven at what had happened. I gave out of my heart, because I was happy he was there. I did want him to reciprocate, but I did know he wasn't ready, and for the time time being I took what i could, I hugged him, kissed him, and it paid off big time
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
