I think the way you handled it is superb "Lets try it again..." Do it every time, and he should get the message. Maybe follow up when not in the heat of the moment with a "You know H, when you do that baby-talk thing asking me for sex, it just kind of kills it for me. On the other hand when you tell me what you want and what you are going to do without asking it reaaaallly revs me up. If I'm not in the mood I'll tell ya even if you don't ask, so why not increase your chances and just tell me what you want, or better just take me "
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