I need some advice. My H told my d7 a few weeks ago that he was planning to have her stay with him at Ow's apt on his weekend visits. I called him on it and told him that it was unacceptable to me that he have our d sleepover at Ow's -- 1. still married 2. poor example for our d 3. d barely knows Ow - puts d in uncomfortable situation 4. Advised by our d's C that it was too soon to introduce any new people into her life. 1 year POST divorce.
Found out that this past weekend - d slept over at Ow's place! H completely disregarded everything I said. Just Monday night he told d that she MISUNDERSTOOD what he told her and that she WOULDN'T be sleeping at Ow's just going over to visit sometimes. Then he goes ahead and does it anyway! Not sure what that was all about?
My question to you is this- Do I say anything to my H? Since you have been through a MLC or your own and also dealt with a MLC S, I would value your advice on this. I'm really confused and don't know what to do. I already told him how I felt about it and he went ahead and did what he wanted anyway. Should I just drop it?
I know MLCer's don't like being told they are wrong and that they are making a mistake, so I am unsure of how to handle this.
My ultimate goal is to still get my M back one day-- what should I do?
