We can only save ourselves and do the best we can by our children. The problem comes in not having our standing seem...out of desperation to them. That is my worry. Dad was a doormat...rather than Dad did the right thing.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK