You hit the nail on the head here. The vicious cycles that I guess we are to break. We are the stronger ones and have to make sure our children grow up emotionally healthy. Of course the irony is we have an extra hurdle to get over with these abandonment issues but then again maybe we would not have become aware of potential problems if these issues had not arisen. I always believed I needed to hang on to "save" h but maybe all this is to save my children.
