This piece of sh!t may have my wife's attention, but I have 26 years of shared experience. Life's ups and downs, and I have been there through it all, unwavering. I have a life time of love with this woman, he has a fling with someone who is confused and at a low point in her life.
I have three beautiful shining children with her, he has a handfull of unrealistic fantasy moments.
I have and will continue to show her that I am standing by her side through the toughest moments of our lives, he has and will continue to show her that he is a manipulative, lieing, cheating unrepentant SOB with no regard for anyone but himself.(she just needs to wake up and see that part)
I am the man who has loved her through the many seasons of our lives, he is a selfish @sshole who she will tire of as his real neediness starts to rear it's ugly head.
I am the man who has forsaken all others for HER, vowed to be with her in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse, AND MEANT IT! He is happy with her as long as she is fulfilling his needs.
I just need to keep it all in perspective. Was 40 years too long to wander for the promise of God?
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
