Oh (((((((J)))))))) Too much to think about!!! The post you wrote about your D and her conversation with her Dad made me cry. it was all too familiar. As you know my H also went 3000 miles away to seek his good fortune in the land of opportunity. The kids are s-l-o=w-l-y begining to trust him again but it is hard. The younger ones want to know if he is leaving again. Your thoughts and your questions honestly make my head spin because I too am married to an over-achiever who is now talking about getting another degree. Me, I just wanted to finish my BA, but I guess that there will never really be time for that now. As for the inlaw situation I am definately stuck. I need help and prayer. I have to let this damned thing die, but I can't. I want her head on a platter (insert evil laugh)!!! I will be the first to tell you that I am wrong.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.