hope, I understand...I feel like my situation is getting worse too. H is nice to me one minute and then I don't hear from him for days. Supposed to take D's tonight but I haven't heard from him and I am not sure if I should call or just wait and see what happens?? HELP My H really dropped the bomb...I had no idea we were having any problems at all...I almost wish I had seen it coming maybe it would be easier. All I can say to you is keep up the "as if" ...my mil is lost too, she has no idea what is going to happen in the beginning she thought this would blow over now she is not sure either...it hurts when even their own mother can't understand. My H doesn't even really talk to her about things he just "OK's" her to death...I am very anxious and frustrated today!
