I should add that the other way in which I am different from you wife is that I don't believe that it is reasonable to expect your partner to fulfill your every sexual desire. I think it is ridiculous that you had a "Never Say No" contract. However, I do believe that it is necessary to have some sort of contract that both parties agree to honor or else it is the equivalent of having a "It's alway okay to say No" contract which is equally ridiculous. The 3x a week scenario that I outlined in my proposal is just an example of a contract to which I might agree. If my H were to offer any sort of reasonable compromise I would almost certainly agree to it. I don't know how far back you've read in my history but every sexual agreement that I have tried to make with him he has broken. He is willing to commit to nothing.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver