Thanks Cat.. I just went on Amazon and ordered those books. You are so right about him not wanting the chaos of us.. Everything is perfect in the OW's world.. No real life stuff to interfere with perfection! I've been doing really well for a couple of days as far as watching my words and anger (anger from my hurting heart and the hurt he keeps instilling!!).
I guess I should look at the positives in that he talks about future stuff with us - even though it's boring future "projects", at least he is still seeing us together. It's just so hard to keep it in check when you know your H is lying and keeping things from you. Sometimes I think that I just want it to be over one way or another..but in reality I just want his A to be over!
