Our relationships are where they are b/c both spouses have screwed up.
You're right yes. I know I screwed up big style and it was the main factor in H leaving. However he screwed up to as you so rightly say yet he still cannot acknowledge this. He still sees our separation very matter of factly - not acknowledging that it broke my heart into zillions of pieces and he hasn't picked them all back up yet. His basic take on it is I left because of you so what if it hurt you.
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Even to say that to her is out of my comfort zone b/c I wasn't raised that way
I think that is wonderful that you try to step out of your comfort zone. You sound very positive in your attitude. Thank you for posting me.
