Hiya, HD. I haven't been posting much lately, but I follow your sitch religiously (well, not like there's HOLY WATER involved or anything, just -- oh, nvm).

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"Peaceful" is almost an understatement. She's been positively friendly lately. Is it a result of last week's IWTMLWYOAW? Or is it just where we are right now?


It may be that your wife is very much like my wife, in that she is happiest when she is simultaneously both WANTED and FOUND TO BE SEX-Y, but isn't at the moment required to have any ACTUAL SEX with you.

My wife is happiest when she knows I want her, but doesn't have to deal with sex.

Could it be that this is the place where your wife is at the moment? She thinking "Hmmm, HD still finds me attractive, and yet he's backed off that silly 'once-a-week' demand of his and seems content again, and isn't this a great episode of 'Brothers and Sisters'?"

Just a thought.

Choc.