That's interesting. I'm not sure it fits, though. I really can't be sure.

Over the last few days, my W's been affectionate and upbeat on odd hours and not so cheery on the evens.

We've been exercising together, which seems to raise her spirits, but I find it odd that her moods shift the way they do right now.

For example, she got angry at me at one point, saying, "You know, I'm not going to live my life in limbo anymore with you," implying that D was immanent.

Later that evening, she was talking about some of our problems together, and somewhat tenderly said, "that's why I'm afraid to come back to you." She was very affectionate afterwards, telling me how much she loved me and so on.

I don't know how much this has to do with the OM and how much it has to do with what's going on inside her.

I do know that when I compliment her on her work (she's an artist), she seems to feel much better about herself, which reflects on how positively she interacts with me.

But how much of what is going on is light-years away from anything I am (or am not) doing?