OM is Jealous of Me.

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always good to have a back-up plan!, and a back-up to the back-up.

H$ll, I don't even have a plan yet.:)

I am starting to give more creadence to the notion that W may need to "save" someone along w/ herself. Physically he is the opposite of me and anything she has ever found attractive, or at least shared w/ me.

Her reading list has included some self-help, but also treatment options for other problems that I suspect are on OM's resume. I think this is another way to justify her behavior, "we love each other and share a common passion, and he needs me, he is so wounded, our experiences are the same, it was destiny for us to be together."(my words, not her's)

I find myself doing less and less for my W. Not in an unkind way, just understanding that it is not appreciated so why do it.