right before he talked about getting beaned, which is a fear response on her part he said he had some succes with "I have had some limited success with figuratively throwing her over my shoulder and having my way (e.g. pushing her down on the bed and going for it). ' If I got beaned in the head, I would stop that particular line of effort. I dont think masculinity always means drag her back to the cave litterally.
There are all types, including control freaks, abuse victims, hormonally indifferant, etc. With the exception of hormonally indifferant, I dont believe in LDwomen. I believe in Relationally LD. Now so more then ever. GEL was LD, untill she learned not to be. Thats the norm.