What does it all mean??

[cat03]

I want you to go out right now and get 'The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Laura Schlessinger

and

For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn

You'll find many answers there, I promise.

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His questioning of me is more of: do I think we can ever work it out between us after all of this pain
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I about told my H 1,000 "our M can be stronger than before" and "it will be all worth it, we can do it", over and over again, he was too scared to think of beginning to heal our M again

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nothing was changing as far as his R with OW. Sooo, we started getting in more arguments
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Of course not, things are too caotic beween you two, he doesn't want to go back to more of the same.