It's up to you how long, and how far you are willing to tolerate her affair.
GAL and 180 will make you stronger, even if the "knife" is in the wound. They will.
And GAL and 180's take some time take effect. Having her leave the house while she's sleeping with another man may be necessary for your sanity and DB efforts.
The hard part is, how do you respect and love someone who is not acting in a respectable or loving manner towards you? All I can say is, "While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." He loved those who crucified him. Look deep into his wounds of love and medidate on them.
