Blackfoot, Just to clarify... I think that Jenny and I ( more than) make up for our lack of testosterone with our imaginations. I have more repression to overcome, so my thoughts are a bit darker/stronger than hers, but they are of the same lines. I was really indulging my fantasy side when I came on board here.
The HD men here go along with the play ( see MJ's thread about contracts and such), but notice how they don't stand around talking about the latest Playboy issue, or Anna Nicole Smith's cup size, or whatever it is that fills their minds ( actually it would be useful to know, in the same way it's useful for the men to know our ultra alpha male fantasies).
But it's all fantasy. I wouldn't want that. I want a guy who is in touch with his feminine side, who has vulnerability, who doesn't have to appear to be strong 24/7. I love that. I just don't want to get trapped into mothering it, though, lol.
MJ got caught in the mothering trap. Fills a need for her. I ran away from it. Could never compete with my MIL...she is a great cook,lol. But I ran too much.
In the end, it's about balance. Aristotle said, " Everything in moderation." That's health.
As far as the wrestling incident, I meant I was just not at a place to go ahead and enjoy it. Dork.
