The problem is not that you have a JJP, it's that you activate it to full blast in response to negative crap from your H.
I really don't feel like I do that so much anymore. Also, I would say that naturally it would activate in response to positive stuff too. Sort of the equivalent of being someone who wants to eat cookies in response to stress but also wants to eat cookies in order to celebrate.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
