As well as can be expected one day at a time, but I just got word this AM that BIL had a siezure last night and CAT scan showed mass on his brain, MRI this AM, won't know for awhile. I spoke to SIL, she is very upset and everyone keeps telling her be positive, she said it was driving her crazy.(she has always been an eternal pessimist) I told her it was OK to feel the fear, uncertainty, and anger, but to feel it and then move past it because BIL will need help w/ PMA, and she won't be able to do that if she is focusing on the negative. Also told her to take care of herself, get some sleep, make sure she eats, keep working out. All of that sounds really familiar...
It is amazing to me how similar all traumatic events are. A few months ago, I would have never thought in those terms in response to an illness, but now it is second nature.
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
