Dear Blackfoot, Loved the "what makes you think I respect you now?" Can I use that without attribution?
It weirds me out when guys call me Dear. Im not sure if they are trying to get in my pants or are taking aim to make venison stew..... Nothing I say is unique or copyrighted. Knock yourself out with it. I post that stuff so people can get a feel, or see there is always another option besides either negative pushing or needy pulling. That is an -honest to my feelings --reply.
some other optional replys would be [derisive voice]'Fck NO I dont respect you. now come over here, lie down, and stop talking so much'... or {whiny voice] 'Of course I do, your the greatest ever. Let me prove to you how I respect you. [lielielie somemore].'
For example Burg's reply .. " asked if I respected her and I said, "If I didn't respect you I wouldn't be here." would not be the truth if I said it. Id have to wait for 2-3 years to have sex with a woman to say that honestly.
So your welcome to use it, but I think it would suit you better to say your own truth without being a Ahole or a handbag. besides if your here thats not really a relevant issue if your in a LTR. The ladies here just wanted to throw their best test at me, and have some fun, so I obliged.
Heather,
I'd just like to say, that is not always true
x was brutally honest with me about this stuff. she got plus 25 points for the honesty. minus 200 points for the mental imagary, and minus 300 points for the indecision, which prompted the betrayal. sum total = negative 475 respect points.
Do you mean she didn't know if she wanted to be with you or OM? yes Did you make it clear to her that you still wanted to be with her? I made it clear I did NOT want to Just tell me if you don't want to answer any more of my questions, I'm just interested. Over what length of time did all of this take place? 4 months preA, 3 months seperated (dark), about 50 days with 12 contacts (gray), 4 months reconciled, 6 months seperated with 1 week of contact in the 5th, for her to D.
Heather I havent been relating bits and pieces of my sitch for the past few months relevant and equivalant to yours, just to have something to talk to you about. Ive been doing it so you could see another perspective. Read the sitch backwards. Extrapolate. Ive talked more about me and my sitch in your threads, then I ever wanted to on this BB. Honestly I feel like I failed miserably at my goal w/you. Dont worry about that, its not your problem or fault, and I learned learned something too. So thanks to you for the unintended lesson. Failing is the best way to learn what doesnt work.
Im going to let Nop handle this now. I would like to see you use a DB coach over the C you have been using. Im over here hoping good things for your kids, I know youll get what you work towards. Its who you are. Ill be Cheering you on from the sidelines.
Burgbud, please pass the cookies. Maybe a Twix will work..
the notion of you hanging around this thread to keep me in my place doesn't concern me.
Thank god for that. I find you really sexy when you do that.
(If you really want to know, Im very unhappy about it actually. I had a fantastically hilarious reply to the other post, and youve gone and spoiled it by acting classy. Damn you. Thwarted again.) Anybody see where fearless went? I need somebody to pick on now. Just cause Burgs acting all classy, doesnt mean Im about to start. With a name like that, surely she can handle my crap.
