This isn't all just a MLC is also from alot of fighting and rejection threw the last several years. Can he over come all of that and see we can have a new wonderful life and marriage again. We see other everyday because of the kids. You would never know there was anything wrong with us and I think that's why I have a hard time thinking he will come back. I even wonder if he thinks about us at all. I really don't think he does,his focus his on her and move on with his life. This really hurts and his mom really isn't sure he will return either. So my marriage issues I feel are at the worse. Can he over come all the hurt and pain we both have done to our marriage. Please help. Thanks!