Well I got the invite to the camping trip. D16 didn't have to do any prompting either. Am getting mixed signals from w. Went out with w last Friday night just her and myself. Went to see a music competition final for young aspiring musos. There was about eight finalists. It was a good night although I found it hard to get a good converstion going with the w I guess she finds it hard to talk to me too. Was around the family home on Monday and asked w if she had many people coming to her meditation. She said most had cancelled and if she could contact the one person that hadn't cancelled she would cancel it and go and visit OM. I just said MMM. Don't know if she was trying to get a reaction from me or what, well I didn't give her one. I thought OM had backed off.
Have made a concious decision not to pry, spy or try in any way to find out what w is up to. The knowing only seems to give me grief so it is better not to know. Also if w found out I was prying etc. it would set the cause back somewhat.
So it seems that there are some positive signs from w lately. The fact w is still wanting to go to AlAnon and she has wanted to do things with me lately and the fact that she invited me to the camping trip all positive. I have still got to be patient though.
