All marriage counselors are NOT created equal. I have heard of marriage counselors that not only don't support marriage, but support divorce. Make sure your counselor is marriage positive. Also be aware that I have read of counselors that will sabotage a betrayed spouse by taking sides with the wayward spouse rather than being neutral.
Don't blindly trust your counselor until you are sure of their commitment and expertise.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.