I wonder about that though Ophelia because he is very manipulative and my thought is that once the finances are settled, he will not be around at all. I know that he is openly "going for coffee" with his co-worker. And it will be a matter of time before I see them publicly. But today, I'm feeling more detached and less impacted emotionally by it all. Because I truly believe it is MLC. How it will play out, I have no idea. But letting go of the rope is my only chance to save myself from the chaos of his ride. The sadness comes and goes but I feel such a loss of respect for him these days that the love I felt I still had for him is being squashed daily. I'm planning to stay dark and keep on looking after me.