Hey;
I think the plug is going to get pulled towards the end of next month. W has work trip planned that will bring her into the realm of the OM. I have been thinking for awhile that if there has been no movement whatsoever on her part by that time, then it will be time for her to choose.

My ultimatum will be choose to stay and work on our M, or choose to leave, but then you must leave.

It is not healthy for the children or either one of us to continue this way. If her choice is to pursue relationship w/ OM then do it on your own time and your own dime.

As I have said before, she does not have physical contact w/ him d.t. him being out of state, so it has to be work or fantasy island vacation for them to get together.

I have no interest in pushing for divorce, but with no help at all from her, I don't think I can maintain the current situation much longer.

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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis