Hey;
Speaking from a husband's perspective, noticing your hair is HUGE!!!!!!!!!

I can't remember the number of times I got called on the carpet because I didn't notice that she got her hair "trimmed", or went from champaigne to summer blond, or what ever. It is a genetic fault in men, we don't notice your hair unless you dye it purple, or unless we are really noticing YOU.

Your husband noticed you, and that is a good thing.

Did you positively reinforce his behavior?

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"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis