Suspicion confirmed

[Ophelia]

Hope you managed to get the time off work and have a fabulous time in Jamaica!

After our final C appt last Wednesday, before I found out about the OW we had a very compassionate e-mail exchange where he stated that he hadn't ruled out a MLC! I was surprised he would consider it when he's been so certain that's not what is happening. I encouraged him to not think about the label but if he did research the symptoms he may find they fit. I can only hope that is what he has done and that the pieces may be falling into place for him.

Good to hear that he hasn't ruled out MLC. I had a similar email exchange with my H several months back. He said he'd read a bit about MLC and decided it wasn't him. Said that MLC is when everything in your life is crap, and in his case, it was just us that was bringing him down, so it can't be MLC. Of course, it's textbook MLC behaviour to convince yourself that your spouse is the source of any and all problems in your life so you've gotta dump them to magically fix your problems, so frankly I think that just proved the point that he is MLC. Whether or not he's ever gonna realise it, I dunno. At least your H is entertaining the idea. Means he's not fooling himself into thinking he's totally in his right mind about everything.