I agree with celestial. Monitor; say nothing right now. I know it is early on for you but you may want to get your own cc and checking accts. if you don't already. One thing I've seen here is the debt these MLC'ers create. My own H included. I got smart and got my own accts. set up. Just food for thought. We end up having to think on the defensive, sadly enough.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
