Detaching, is not working for Lissy right now

[Holly06]

Lissett, and Always,
I guess I could be accused of being very generous to my H.
But you need to know that I admire and respect the choice that you both made to let it lose. DB is not about perfection. It is an option. Sometimes that option is right, and sometimes it is wrong.
But I hear from both of you that it was the right option for YOU.
I want to believe that God helped you to find the words and anger to tell your H's. I think God may have had a part in that. Do not doubt yourself.
Do not every consider being ashamed about being honest and forthright with us her on this board. We cherish you both, just the way you are.
Love,
Holly