Each little chip that falls away moves me one step closer to just being done.
For my sit, it wasn't until I was "done" when the stbx started showing interest. Of course she's confused, wants her cake and eat it to, but I won't give it to her. She's angry about this at times, but I stand my ground. There can't be reconciliation with OM in the picture, it's a huge distraction.
You have to continue to with GAL and detaching until you "break" her or until your M is over. One way or the other, you have to do it for your own peace of mind.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
