sometimes i wonder if it is a good thing if h moves out. Right now he is supposedly working on leaving OW. But he refuses to just dump her. He is "slowing resetting expectations". Yesterday night he was there till 6am, supposedly to talk about the abortion details. He said last she was expecting him to move out. Now he told her he is back to undecided because he loves her and he loves me. Needless to say, I was quite unhappy that he was there till 6am and sent text messages asking him when he's coming home, etc. Now he accuses me of not giving him space to work this out and he is already rethinking his decision (of not moving out, I guess). This is so hard. He is turning everything I say, even innocent comments, into a swipe at him. I hate this. I mean, I can only be uplifting and happy for so long without blowing up. But I am still working on it and will try to keep my anger in check, in front of him anyway. Which means probably more venting on this forum and writing journel.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
