Still in the fight

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Whatis;
It is indeed a "pretty deep wound". The larger problem is that the knife is still twisting. A quick sharp wound begins attempts at repair immediately, and when left alone will heal. When the knife is an A with OP, the wound makes no progress at repair, just continues to remain open.

I have come to the conclusion that everything else I do is just covering the wound while the knife remains.

More positive imagery would be DB and GAL are like antibiotics and blood transfusions until the knife can be removed, but either way, significant healing can not occur while the offending knife remains.

I commend you on your ability to stand in the face of all this. I agree that things are easier at work because work has not changed. The tasks and proceedures are the same, the expectations are the same. Our marriages have become "shifting sand".