I can't go to an evening sale without leaving dinner in a crockpot because he can't/won't cook at all.
You just meant this as a hypothetical example, right? Surely you don't mean this literally... because this is total utter complete bullsh!t. So what if he can't/won't cook. He can be hungry. He can make a PBJ, for Pete's sake.
Re Mojo's sexual precocity: I was very sexual from a very young age, too. I've been thinking about that recently. I obsessed about sex from the time I found out (from the encyclopedia at age 11) what it was. I wasn't obsessed with the validation or affirmation of it. I was obsessed with the buzzy feelings and mystery of it. I'm a double Scorpio. BUT as an only girl who moved around a lot, I didn't have any social life, AND this was before the pill and I was DEATHLY afraid of pregnancy. I KNEW my parents would put me out on the street if I became pregnant. There was no doubt in my mind. I didn't really "sleep around" until after I was divorced at the age of 25. Although I did have an affair when I was married. It's only recently with my bf and with all the reading I've been doing and soul searching that I feel whole without the lack of sex in my life affecting me adversely. Interesting. ALL my life sex has been THE single most validating thing I have been seeking. Everything else in my life could be fantastic, and if I wasn't having sex regularly, I felt like a failure. That's just not true anymore.
