Lis,
It's hard now that you imagine things in your head. I know that my H didn't answer his phone when he was with OW. So even now, when he doesn't answer, I get this awful feeling in the pit of my stomach... Sometimes I actually shake.

You just need time to adjust to the news of OW. Don't sweat not checking in on anyone. Do for you right now.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track